Night Out
Alright, here's a little field report for you.
Went out last night and met a guy in the community for the first time, whiplash. Pretty good guy, met up and jumped right into it at a local bar. Started out just socializing with a few kids I knew there to get warmed up, met a few of their friends, had a few beers, and started up the engine. The process of warming up is very important I found out as I was way more successful last night than most nights due to not jumping into it cold, and instead having a few conversations that I knew would turn out well. This sets you in a good mood and makes it easier to approach. I have to admit, Whiplash did most the approaching, and I was often jumping into his sets to wing for him, which went well, however I really need to work on opening still. One set in particular went very well, I found him talking to two pretty attractive girls, say red-dress and red-dress's friend. I introduced myself and started chatting up RD while Whiplash talked to RD's friend, found out they were both in a sorority and RD was born and lived in Singapore for a while. This led to further conversations about travel etc, and things went very smoothly, we ejected from the set and wandered around a bit. I was noticing that whenever I walked by RD she would wave and/or wink at me, I would just give a grin and keep walking which turned out well. On the way out we saw the both of them smoking outside, chatted em up a bit more then number closed RD after a bit. Went on out to get some grub with Whiplash and talked about various methods and went home about 2 AM. Pretty great night overall for a wednesday, good to meet someone from the community finally. I feel I could've definitely escalated more, I did some good kino however, which was returned as well. I need to work on escalation and the approach/open mainly as the conversations I had once i got into them, overall, went pretty well.
Went out last night and met a guy in the community for the first time, whiplash. Pretty good guy, met up and jumped right into it at a local bar. Started out just socializing with a few kids I knew there to get warmed up, met a few of their friends, had a few beers, and started up the engine. The process of warming up is very important I found out as I was way more successful last night than most nights due to not jumping into it cold, and instead having a few conversations that I knew would turn out well. This sets you in a good mood and makes it easier to approach. I have to admit, Whiplash did most the approaching, and I was often jumping into his sets to wing for him, which went well, however I really need to work on opening still. One set in particular went very well, I found him talking to two pretty attractive girls, say red-dress and red-dress's friend. I introduced myself and started chatting up RD while Whiplash talked to RD's friend, found out they were both in a sorority and RD was born and lived in Singapore for a while. This led to further conversations about travel etc, and things went very smoothly, we ejected from the set and wandered around a bit. I was noticing that whenever I walked by RD she would wave and/or wink at me, I would just give a grin and keep walking which turned out well. On the way out we saw the both of them smoking outside, chatted em up a bit more then number closed RD after a bit. Went on out to get some grub with Whiplash and talked about various methods and went home about 2 AM. Pretty great night overall for a wednesday, good to meet someone from the community finally. I feel I could've definitely escalated more, I did some good kino however, which was returned as well. I need to work on escalation and the approach/open mainly as the conversations I had once i got into them, overall, went pretty well.
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